The Role of Schools in Bullying
Schools play a critical role in stopping
bullying, because most aggression happens on school
grounds during recess, in lunch rooms, or in bathrooms. Schools should have and
enforce zero-tolerance programs that make it clear that bullying won't be
tolerated.
School-based programs can help reduce bullying by:
- Raising awareness of bullying through school
assemblies and classroom discussion of the problem. These conversations should
include teaching healthy ways to control anger. They should also teach the
value of cooperation, positive communication skills, and
friendship.
- Having peers help settle an incident and talk with all
students involved.
- Increasing parents' and teachers'
involvement.
- Increasing supervision of children on school grounds,
especially when they are out of the classroom.
- Forming clear rules
about behavior that will not be tolerated.
- Providing support and
protection for children who are bullied.
You can help your child's school develop bullying policies by
becoming involved in parent-teacher organizations (PTO or PTA) and by
volunteering to help teachers.
In the classroom, teachers should make it clear that bullying will
not be tolerated. Teachers must be prepared to follow through with consequences
if bullying occurs. Doing so sends the message that adults are serious about
the problem. It also encourages children who are not involved in bullying to
report any incidents they see.
Conferences can be held—separately or together—with the parents of
both children involved in bullying incidents.
School-based programs are one piece of a larger plan to help
children understand the importance of treating one another with kindness and
respect.