Harmful Effects of Domestic Violence
Domestic violence is one of the most common causes of
injury to women in the United States. The head, face, neck, chest, breasts, and
abdomen are the areas most frequently injured.9
After battering starts, it usually continues and is likely to increase
in severity if left untreated. For example, battering that starts with a slap
may escalate over time to kicking and shoving and finally choking.2 The repeated injury and stress of living in a violent
relationship often results in long-lasting health problems such as
post-traumatic stress disorder, headaches, chronic
neck or back pain,
depression, and
sexually transmitted diseases (including
HIV/AIDS). Other long-lasting health problems include
irritable bowel syndrome,
fibromyalgia,
panic attacks, and pelvic pain. In fact, abused women
have a 50% to 70% increase in these kinds of major health problems.10 Women who are abused are also more likely to smoke or abuse
alcohol.11
Pregnancy can be an especially
dangerous time for women who are in abusive relationships. Abuse may increase
in severity or even start during pregnancy. An estimated 6% of all pregnant
women are battered.1 Problems during pregnancy, such
as low weight gain,
anemia, infections, and bleeding, are higher for these
women. Not surprisingly, babies born to abused women also suffer. Abuse during
pregnancy has been shown to increase the baby's risk of low birth weight,
premature birth, and death.3, 4
Children who witness domestic violence can also
suffer long-term consequences. Many studies have shown that children who grow
up witnessing abuse suffer from emotional, behavioral, and
cognitive problems. They are at greater risk for
depression, poor school performance, withdrawal, and complaints like
stomachaches and headaches. Often, on the playground and at school, boys
display to some degree the aggressive behavior they witness at home.12
By the teen years, both boys and girls are at
increased risk for depression, drug and alcohol use, and disruptive behavior.
Affected teen girls attempt suicide more often.13
The legacy of domestic violence is passed on
when children are raised to believe that violence is a normal way of life.
Children who witness domestic violence are more apt to be involved in violent
relationships as adults, either as abusers or victims.5
And children often suffer directly. Men who
batter their wives also frequently assault their children. Violence or the
threat of violence toward a victim's children is often used to control a
battered woman. In 30% to 60% of these violent homes, the children are also
abused.1
Children often believe that
somehow they are the cause of the violence in the home. You can help your
children by assuring them that they are loved and not at fault. Children need
to feel that they are protected and safe. When you leave an abusive
relationship, you show by example that violence is wrong.