The view you have about your body (your body image) may change when
you have cancer. It is normal to be angry, frustrated, or disappointed after
cancer surgery or during treatment for cancer. For example, surgery to remove a
breast may profoundly affect body image because the appearance of the female
breast is emphasized in our society.
People recovering from cancer often feel anxious or guilty that
previous sexual activities may have caused their cancer or that further sexual
activity could cause the cancer to return or be transmitted to their partner.
Sexual activities or injuries do not cause cancer, and cancer cannot be
transmitted from one person to another.
Sexual problems can be caused by physical or psychological changes
related to the cancer or cancer treatment.
- Physical changes can include damage to or removal
of nerves, blood vessels, or organs from the growth of the cancer or by the
treatments to remove the cancer. Pain during intercourse because of changes in
the vagina can be caused by chemotherapy or hormone therapy. General pain,
fatigue, and discomfort can result from cancer
treatment.
- Psychological changes can include depression, confusion,
anxiety, guilt, and stress caused by the diagnosis of cancer and changes in
your body image after surgery and treatment for cancer. These psychological
factors are often the most troublesome after treatment is complete.
The stress of being diagnosed with cancer may spill over into other
areas of your life, including your personal and sexual relationships. Some
people may experience less sexual pleasure or lose their desire to be sexually
intimate. Those without partners often stop dating altogether because they feel
that a potential partner might reject them because of their history of cancer.
Discuss your concerns with your doctor, a counselor, or another
health professional. You may also contact your local chapter of the American
Cancer Society to help you find a support group. Talking with other people who
may have had similar feelings can be very helpful.